Christin on May 11th, 2012

“The noblest calling in the world is that of mother. True motherhood is the most beautiful of all arts, the greatest of all professions. She who can paint a masterpiece or who can write a book that will influence millions deserves the plaudits and admiration of mankind; but she who rears successfully a family of healthy, beautiful sons and daughters whose immortal souls will be exerting an influence throughout the ages long after painting shall have faded, and books and statues shall have been destroyed, deserves the highest honor that man can give.”

~ David O. McKay

As the country has been preparing to go into the mother’s day weekend I have been seeing lots of posts on Facebook and Twitter for plans families have made to celebrate, I have  heard many discussions on the radio for mothers to call in and share their idea of the perfect mother’s day, and of course there are advertisements everywhere to send your mother flowers, candies, spa packages, etc.  This has all made me wonder what makes mother’s day so special to me?  (it’s also a bit of a test to see what my husband does with the day and how he guides our daughter, but he doesn’t know that yet).  This is the first year my daughter is old enough to really make something creatively on her own or for us to do something together, which I would love!  But mother’s day means more than that to me.

For me mother’s day doesn’t mean a chance to not have to cook breakfast or dinner.  It doesn’t mean being pampered at a spa or being given flowers that will die in a week.  I don’t enjoy sitting around and being waited on.  I have a family and I cook and clean because I love them and love to love on them and care for them.  So, for me, to take that away for a day is not a celebration.  Yes, there are times where I want an hour to not be needed and to have an opportunity to shave or read a book but anymore than that and it’s not fun anymore.

While all of those things may be appreciated, what Mother’s day really means to me is the day that  God blessed me with my daughter.  The day that He trusted me with His precious creation and allows me the honor and blessing to raise her up and teach her all about Him and how to serve and love the world.  It is also the day that I was able to look at my little tiny baby girl and see God’s face looking back up at me.

I have always considered myself to be a Christian, but like I have said before that does not mean I was always living my life as a Christian should.  When my daughter was born and I was able to feel the miracle and awesomeness of God’s creation and see how day by day she was formed and since then how she has grown.  It was that day when my whole world began to change.  I, for the first time, let myself see God all around me and was able to understand how He could unconditionally love each and every one of us regardless of what we have ever done.  How He would want to guide us, but not give us all of the answers and instruction. Hear our prayers and requests but not always give us everything we ask for.  Just as we, as mothers, know that our kids need guidance but not overbearing instruction, and may want everything but not everything is actually good for them.  There are so many things I have been able to learn about God the father through becoming a parent myself and that is what makes this day so special to me.  The first day that I truly saw God and felt Him healing and changing me.

This weekend is a celebration of the blessing of motherhood.  The gift that God entrusted us with, and the experience of being a part of God’s creation and seeing Him first hand.  The opportunity He has given us to change the future of this world by training our children to see Him, look to Him, and live a life that would make Him proud.

So, as you receive your well deserved mother’s day gifts and loving thanks for being the sacrificial servant that you are to your family, please remember to give God His rightful place in that day as well…right in the center.  I will be thanking God everyday for the beautiful child he has given me, but on this day the glory will go all to Him.  Nothing I do, nothing I teach, not even the love that I feel could be done with out Him.

Happy mother’s day!!

“There never was a woman like her. She was gentle as a dove and brave as a lioness… The memory of my mother and her teachings were, after all, the only capital I had to start life with, and on that capital I have made my way.”

~ Andrew Jackson

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Christin on February 22nd, 2012

Do you have a hunger for God? If we don’t feel strong desires for the manifestation of the glory of God, it is not because we have drunk deeply and are satisfied. It is because we have nibbled so long at the table of the world. Our soul is stuffed with small things, and there is no room for the great. If we are full of what the world offers, then perhaps a fast might express, or even increase, our soul’s appetite for God. Between the dangers of self-denial and self-indulgence is the path of pleasant pain called fasting.  ~John Piper

I realized yesterday that Lent is coming up… it begins today in fact.  As I realized this I began to wonder what some of my friends and followers may be giving up.  Is it meat, coffee, Facebook, etc?  I was thinking of it more like a second chance news years resolution that no one takes seriously, not as the opportunity for spiritual growth that it is. 

You see, I have never observed Lent.  Never even felt the need to fast at all actually.  So as I got on twitter and Facebook to see what everyone was giving up I began to unknowingly judge some peoples responses.  I thought, ‘Giving up sweets or carbs! That’s pretty selfish not spiritual.  You just want to loose weight. God doesn’t care if you drop a few pounds!’…Then the Lord spoke to me.

He told me that I was missing the point.  “So what if that person wants to loose some weight! They still need to rely on me to do it. What is behind that persons need for those things?  It is the need to be comforted and find a bit of peace.’  The point of a fast is not just to give up something because someone said you should do it (and starting today…and for 40 days), but because the Lord is telling you that there is something getting between your relationship and it needs to go.  There is something in your life that is taking away time with Him or your need for Him.  And THAT is what you fast.  If that is soda or carbs for you then so be it, who am I to judge what is the right choice for you.  What you fast and for how long is something between you and God.

So, as I was judging and pointing my finger at the most popular fasting selections that I read today God pointed the finger right back at me.. He told me not only do I need to give up one of those things, oh no… I have three things that need some immediate attention and refocusing.  I rely on coffee every morning for my energy and focus for the day.  I lean on snacks for a moment of stress relief and comfort during difficult times, and I look forward to a glass of wine or a beer nearly every night in hopes of some relaxation.  All areas of my life that I do not bring the Lord into nearly as much as I should.

Am I giving these things up for Lent, no.  I am giving them up because the Lord told me I need to learn to look to Him for my strength, energy, and focus.  Lean on Him for some comfort from stress, and look forward to relaxing and resting in Him to find some peace before bed.  Who knows how long this fast will be, but the test is if I am willing to hear my Father’s wisdom and lean on Him to get me through the hardest part of this trial…which will begin in about 7 hours when I am longing for my first cup of coffee.   I am not telling you this to brag about what I am going to do, but to encourage you to ask the Lord if and what you should fast.  Ask Him to point out the areas in your life that need attention and how you can grow closer to Him.

I would love to hear what the Lord is asking you to fast in search of a more clear and dependent relationship on Him instead of earthly things and also if there is any area of your life I could pray for you or send you some encouragement.  I pray that you hear from the Lord what you really need to be giving up in His name.  I pray that you continue to grow in your relationship with God as you seek Him out for the strength to get you through your fast.  I pray that at the end of that time that you have received not only a greater relationship and greater clarity with our Father God, but also that the ‘things’ you have given up no longer have the purpose and hold on you as they did before.  That they are once again only things and not the comfort, strength, or peace that you once thought them to be.  Amen

Don’t be anxious about tomorrow. God will take care of your tomorrow too. Live one day at a time. ~Matthew 6:34

Further Readings

I the Messiah, will publicly honor you in the presence of God’s angels if you publicly acknowledge me here on earth as your Friend. ~ Luke 12:8-9

For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you  received a spirit of adoption, through which we cry ‘Abba, Father’.  ~Romans  8:14-15

And when you fast, don’t make it obvious, as the hypocrites do, for they try to look miserable and disheveled so people will admire them for their fasting. I tell you the truth, that is the only reward they will ever get. ~ Matthew 6:16

Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes
from the mouth of God.  ~Matthew 4:4

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Christin on January 28th, 2012

If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all
without finding fault, and it will be given to him. ~James 1:5

 I have had two conversations this week with people looking for advice on what to do when the church they attend starts teaching things that do not sit right with them.  Things that they do not agree with or believe in.  I have even had someone, in the past, tell me that they went to a Christian church where they walked out of the sermon because the pastor actually said they did not believe Jesus really died on the cross…can you imagine that happening and Christians continuing to stay at that church?  There are times where there may be small disagreements within a church, but something like what I am about to share is far more serious.  There are false teachings and lies spread every where you go.  But what replaces my uneasiness with hopefulness is that these people I will be sharing about both express concern for these teachings as well as a genuine desire to find the truth.  That tells me that even buried in these lies and surrounded by supporters of these lies God is continuing His work in them.  The Holy Spirit is shining light on the lies and encouraging them to seek God’s true heart and meaning of His word, as written in the Bible.

“I  love those who love me, and those who seek me find me.” Proverbs 8:17

There are many differences in what these two persons churches are trying to teach, but one very serious commonality  between these two groups that leaves me worried me is the teaching that the Bible is a book full of parables; no history, no true examples and accounts of historic events.  Just stories full of symbols up for interpretation.  Changing of translations to fit what is being said instead of using the translation that fits what was  historically happening takes the power of God’s word and the power of the Cross out of the scripture.

The reason this has me so bothered is that I am amazed at how willing much of our society is to accept what someone tells us as fact simply because they have a degree or a certificate, or are in a position of authority.  Why are people so willing to forget what they know in their hearts to be truth, and willing to push to the side  all of the historically proven people, places, and events throughout the Bible.

Our society has become one of immediate gratification and answers.  We feel that there is something missing, something more out there but are in such a hurry for an answer and explanation that we will listen to any person claiming to be educated and trained in the matter with out checking for the facts and bringing it to our Father God for His approval.

Once you are able to convince someone that the Bible is all parables and  you take the history and validity out of it you can convince them of anything.  ‘This symbol in this parable represents this and that  one represents that’.  Pair that with scripture quotes taken out of context and apparently ‘point proven’!  Where is God in this kind of teaching?  Jesus warned us that, “Many false prophets will appear and deceive many people” so why are we not bringing God into our daily lives and lessons to let Him poke holes of truth in these teachings.  (Matthew 24:11)Why have we begun to shut out the voice and urge of the Holy Spirit that lives in us to hear when something is not quite right.

At the root of these false teachings there will always be truth and distortion of God’s word.  After all, the best way to convince someone of a lie is to include enough truth to make you accept it.  An example of this put into practice would be in court. You must take an oath to profess ‘the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth’ because anything but the complete truth is a lie.  Any addition to the truth, leaving out of a peice of the truth, or total fabrication means that what is said is a lie, end of story.  We seem to forget that even Satan can quote God’s word.  It’s not in the knowing, it’s in the walking out of the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  We must consider, if Satan tried to use scripture against Jesus, would you not expect him to also use it against us? (Matthew 4:1-11)

For Satan himself transforms himself into an angel of light.  Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also transform themselves into ministers of righteousness, whose end will be according to their works. ~ 2 Corinthians 11:14-15

After the teacher has your ear there may even be a little bit of good that comes out of what is being said or encouraged, but once your trust and relationship is built with this person where do you think they will lead you?  Once you have shut out the voice of he Holy Spirit what will this person have you believing?

“Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but
inwardly they are ferocious wolves”  ~Matthew 7:15

The lesson here is to test everything.  Ask questions, seek genuine truth not just simple answers, ask God for knowledge and wisdom to know His word and will when you hear it, and test everything against what we we know is God’s Character and Jesus’s teachings.  Then take it to God and pray.  Read His word and He will guide you to the truth.  If what you are being taught does not line up with what Jesus taught and how He lived, then something is off.  Even Hitler quoted scripture to convince people of his hateful views! If whoever is teaching you and guiding you is pushing you for an immediate action or decision with no time to test, research in the Bible, or bring it to God for direction then I would seriously question how trustworthy they are.  Any true teacher wants their pupils to  be lead and encouraged by their lessons, but to examine it and learn it for  themselves.

Without slowing down our lives enough to make time to develop a relationship with Jesus we are opening ourselves up to unknowingly falling into these traps.  We need to take time to be reading God’s word for ourselves and letting Him teach us.  The Holy Spirit is trying to guide us and advise, but we need to take a minute and shut out the world to hear and feel Him.

Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether
they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. ~1 John 4:1

Furthermore, if you are hearing teachings that encourage you to leave your family and friends that are not ‘believers’ or are being taught interpretations or ‘additions’ to the bible TEST IT.  I cannot say it enough.  Any verse can be taken out of context to appear as though it supports these teaching, but if you have chosen to seek God and learn who He is and the overall feel and message of the bible you will be able to feel that the teaching and who God really is do not line up.

I prayerfully ask that you pass this message along.  It is not just a lesson for these two people I was talking to, but is a message and a warning for all of us.  Slow down in our day and make time to develop a deep and honest relationship with our Father God.  Slow down in decision making and accepting teachings and lessons.  Test what we see and hear against what we read in the bible of God and His character.  Test what we are learning and practicing against how Jesus lived and taught us to live.  And listen to the Holy Spirit that is inside of us.  He is there to be our counsel and inspiration, so hear Him.  This is the only way we will be able to point and root out the false teachings that God warned us about.  All of the answers are in His word, if we just take the time to read it.

 

Further Readings

[This matter arose] because some false brothers had infiltrated our ranks to spy
on the freedom we have in Christ Jesus and to make us slaves.~Galatians 2:4

Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves
me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him. ~John 14:21

If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me and drink. ~John 7:37

No doubt there have to be differences among you to show which of you have God’s
approval. ~1 Corinthians 11:19

such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, masquerading as apostles of
Christ. ~2 Corinthians 11:13

The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and
follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons~1 Timothy 4:11

For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ ~Jude 1:4

 

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Christin on January 14th, 2012

People were bringing these little children to Jesus to have him touch them, but
the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to
them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them for the
kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth anyone who will
not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” And he
took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them.”  ~Mathew 10: 13-16

 

I have gone back and forth on writing this for quite a while now.  There is just so much to say about the power of a child’s prayer and belief that I didn’t know where to start!  Tonight my daughter said something to me that told me it was time to share (you can read that a little lower).  I would like to start by sharing a few experiences of children’s prayers that I have come across.

When the earthquake struck Japan, a while back, followed by the terrifying 33 foot tsunami I woke to the news that the tsunami was heading toward the west coast of the States.  Images of  an enormous wave of water the height of a building flooded my mind; that was all of the information I had before I went to work.  I prayed aloud the entire way to work with these images flooding my mind the entire drive.  I prayed for the lives already lost, and for the families effected, but I also prayed over and over that the Lord would stop the wave in its tracks in such a way that the whole world would know it was God’s hands that stopped it.  Once at work  I  discovered that the family I nanny for has family in Hawaii.  Again, at that time we did not know when the tsunami was coming or how high the wave would be.

As soon as the kids had their breakfast I put the news on and showed them what was happening in Japan and explained a little bit about the effects of this catastrophe and how scared people were.  Then I told them that there was a giant wave heading toward the west coast, where Chase has family.  Chase asked  if I could show him where Hawaii was on his map, so I did.  This is where the Lord showed me the love He intended for us to show for all mankind.

Once I showed the kids  Hawaii on the map and asked if they would like to pray for the people effected by and scared of this earthquake and tsunami, Chase asked, “Will we be praying to keep them safe?”  How sweet is that?!  I told them that is exactly what we would be doing and since I pray with my daughter daily I knew she could start the two of them in prayer (remember she is only 2 years old doing this) She began with, “Thank you Jesus, Thank You Jesus, We love you Jesus” and the two of them alternated asking God to give these people hugs,  blankets,  food, and to keep them safe.

As I listened to the kids pray I realized how innocent and sincere these requests were.  How thoughtful it is to ask the Lord to give a scared person a hug, and a cold wet person a blanket.  I listened proud and amazed that these two toddlers were able to grasp how scared and alone these people were, and the more I heard their prayers the more I realized that THIS is how we are meant to pray.  It was so powerful for me to hear toddlers praying for what is really important, things that we all need when we are scared; love and compassion.

I have taught my daughter that any time we hear an emergency vehicle, pass a grave yard with a grave dug, or feel like someone is in trouble we should pray for them.  With that said, there have been several times where my daughter will all of a sudden say, ‘I want to pray for (so and so)’ and then would begin to pray for a friend or family member that was sick or upset that I didn’t even know about!  At any mention of someone in any form of distress she will give anything and pray right on the spot.

When I went to Nicaragua last year, both Chase and Madison went through all of their toys, clothes, and books to give to the kids that do not have as much as they have.  This past week we went to see our town tree lighting and passed a little girl crying in her mother’s lap.  I kept walking and said, “oh, I hope she’s okay”.

That was not good enough for Madison.  She said, “I think she is cold.  Can I give her my gloves?” I didn’t know how cold it was going to be that night, so I had packed 2 pairs of gloves for her to layer, so we walked back and checked on the girl.  Something I had not even noticed this 2 year old child, my baby girl, saw immediately.

When my husband’s grandfather was in the nursing home one day Madison said she didn’t want breakfast because ‘papa didn’t have any breakfast’.  At the time we shrugged it off as imagination, but when we went to visit papa that afternoon it turned out that the nurses had forgotten papa that day and he was still in his bedclothes with no food or medicine…how amazing that she knew that!

There are many other times that Madison has caught our attention to the point that when she tells us God told her something we listen.  I do not have the time to write about all of those events,  but what I really wanted to share with you is what she shared with me tonight.

On the way home from work Madison said, ” Do you know what God told me today?” I said I didn’t and asked her what it was.  She said, “God said that me and you are beautiful and special and He loves us.”  Now I have heard her say this before to me and to other people, so this was not so shocking.  However, she followed it up with, “And He said that we wear crosses”.

Obviously I was sure she was talking about my necklace, so at this point I was still driving and not really putting too much thought into what she had said.  I do have a goal to always continue any conversations that will be educating (including religious or otherwise) and answer any questions  that come up in the process, so I asked her what that meant to ‘wear crosses’.  At first she ignored me and started pointing out Christmas lights that we were passing and shouted for me to look at a giant blow up Santa Claus in our neighbors yard.  When I asked her again what she meant when she said ‘we wear crosses’ she said, “sometimes people get hurt and God puts crosses on them like band-aids”.

At this point we had parked at our house and I was getting out of the car.  I immediately started tearing up and had to take a breath,  look up at the stars, think over how deep of a comment she had just made and didn’t even realize, and thank God for being so amazing.

What is best about all of this is how simple her faith is and how unquestionable she is to hearing what God is speaking to her.  Children are so accepting and encouraging by nature, when is it that it all changes.  Why, as adults, do we have to question and ask God for more clarification on what He has shown us?  In our daily lives we are constantly saying ‘Oh, Lord give me a sign that the last sign you gave me was really a sign’…sounds silly when you think about it.

I have had other parents tell me the sincere and sweet prayers and encouragement that their children have given as well as act out their understanding of bible stories.  It makes my heart so happy to hear children professing their love for God and passing on words and lessons they have learned through bible stories and songs.  I want to encourage this, but even more, I want to learn how to BE like that.  I feel like I learn as much from my daughters unquestionable faith as she learns from me explaining bible stories.  I want to be able to hear what the Holy Spirit is saying in my soul as clearly and willingly as she does.

Is it any wonder after hearing these examples and considering the children in your own lives that Jesus said not to hinder the children from coming to Him, “Anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”  To really accept the kingdom and the WHOLE kingdom we have to be willing to unquestionably believe all that we read in the bible about it.  We have to be able to take out of the equation all of the earthly knowledge and experience we have and realize that our God is a great and supernatural God.  His reality and His Heaven are not our reality and imagination of Heaven.  We could never imagine what a God of infinite creativity and Love would create for our eternity.  We could not fathom a place that every day is new and beautiful with more joy than we have ever experienced and the next day even more joyful and then next and the next.  A place where there is no thought of pain and sadness, no sickness or medicines, no injuries or wheelchairs, no death.  As adults we can only imagine a Heaven based off of what we see in our physical world.  Children are not hindered with this.  They have such beautiful imaginations!  Have you ever seen a picture of an animal that a child drew?  It may be a cross between and elephant, tiger, and fish, but if that child was to show another the other child would accept it with no question or criticism!  This is what we should strive for with what God has shown us.  We should see His word and accept… no question…no criticism.

I pray that this opens your eyes to the beauty and power that our children hold.  I pray you encourage and learn from your children just as you teach them.  I pray that we can all come to Jesus with the faith and acceptance of our own children, and even more I pray that as parents we can raise up a whole new generation of God’s servants that can continue to hear His words as clearly as their own and are fearless in expressing and acting on His will.

 

I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth

~3John 1:4

 

Further Readings:

Train up a child in the way he  should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it ~Proverbs 22:6 

All your children shall be taught by the  LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children ~Isaiah 54:13 

But as for you, continue in what  you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and  how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are  able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus ~2 Timothy 3:14-15

Behold, children are a heritage  from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a  warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his  quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies  in the gate ~Psalm 127:3-5 

See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven ~Matthew 18:10

You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise ~Deuteronomy 6:7

 

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Christin on January 1st, 2012

For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?  ~Luke 14;28     

 

Here we are, at the start of a new year.  One full of high hopes and goals, wonder and excitement.  New years eve is not only a celebration, but it is symbolic for many of us.  It represents an opportunity to leave behind the regrets or disappointments of the past year and look forward to a new season in our lives.  There is something to the saying, ‘out with the old and in with the new’.  But how can we ensure that we are really leaving the past behind us and focus on our hopes, aspirations, and goals for the year ahead?  How can we set goals that we can fully believe will be met and not just forgotten before the weeks out?

Many of us have chosen our resolution by now, but most of us have not set about a realistic plan to achieve our goals or ensure our resolution with make it through times of trial.  A great way to do this is to first make sure your resolution is something of great importance in your life.  Weight loss, although a good goal (in some instances) is nothing without a full change of behavior and thinking about food.  You may set your goal to lose 20lbs, but without recognizing why you are overweight and the importance of lifestyle change you will not be able to maintain that weight and will find it becoming your resolution again for the next year.  So ultimately the weight itself is not the real issue at hand.  Sitting down and writing out the top most important goals you wish to accomplish and what is really behind each one of those goals is a great way to discover what behaviors need to change to get you to your goal.

A resolution, idea, or goal is a great start, but is nothing without a plan to get there.  If your resolution is to quit smoking, but you have no plan for what to do when that craving comes or stress from work kicks in, you will most likely forget you goal and relieve your immediate need.  However, if you are armed with a plan and have your gum or twizzlers (or whatever it may be) ready when the time comes, you are far more likely to see your goal through.  It is the same for any other resolution as well.

Nothing can be accomplished all in one swipe.  You can’t just go to bed New Years eve and say, “I’m going to finish college this year” and then wake up with a degree.  It takes steps and work.  Set mini goals to get to a greater goal, and way to gage the success of each stage to give you the encouragement you need to see it accomplished.  Write it down if that helps you to stay focused and encouraged.  I am definitely a visual person and find the thermometer style goal setting the most encouraging.  You know, the kind that you see for fundraising goals and such.  You set the big goal as the top of the thermometer and each line in between as the mini goals.  Then color in each area as you meet that goal until the thermometer is completely colored and you have achieved the ultimate goal.  Love that!  Being able to see yourself accomplishing the steps and getting closer to achieving your resolution is a great encouragement.

Another way to help set yourself up for success it to find people that will hold you accountable.  People that will check in on how you are doing or will be right there doing it with you.  People that won’t hear your excuses when you start to wain on your enthusiasm and will bring you back up and encourage you to succeed.  If you want to start going to the gym every morning before work you may need someone who will call and get you up every morning or will go with you.  Someone that will give you a hard time if you miss a day so that you would rather get yourself up than to hear a lecture from them, etc.

Once you have chosen your resolution and devised a plan of attack you then need to make sure you do not sabotage yourself.  Do not let the failures from prior attempts or disappointments from the past creep in and take away your enthusiasm.  Each day is a new day.  No matter what we have done in our past or has been done to us the Lord has given us endless grace to get us through it.  Forgiveness and hope are so powerful!  Accepting that God sees only great accomplishments and beauty in you and never hold your own personal failures against you is the most powerful encouragement you can receive.  God has a plan for you and no matter what goal you feel you have failed in your own life, you have never let Him down.  Forget the past and live in today with hope for tomorrow.

If you are having trouble deciding what areas of your life need attention, or keep finding yourself giving up on your goals, ask the Lord for direction and guidance.  Many times if our own goals are not working out for us no matter how hard we try, it may be that it is not the Lord’s plan for us. However, if we bring Him into helping us to set our goals and become our strength and encouragement to get through tough times, our other needs will be met.  Why worry about buying a new car and work overtime to get it when that leaves you neglecting other areas in your life.  That is not what the Lord would have you do.  Instead, focus on what is important in life.  The things that God has told us we are to spend our time doing and the car will come, the house will come, the engagement ring will come, all of your dream and desires will come.  He wants that for you even more than you do!

Although New Years may feel like a great chance to make a fresh start, in reality every day is a fresh start.  Every day is a day to make a change in your life and seek out what really needs to change in your life.  We have a great and wonderful God on our side.  A loving father that wants to see us succeed through everything, and wants to bless us with all that we could ask for. So reach for the sky! Bring the Lord into your resolution, let him be a part of your encouragement and strength.  If we include in our resolution to spend time with Him daily to achieve His desires for our lives, and receive His encouragement, we will find more happiness and blessings than we could have ever achieved on our own.

 

“Ah, but a man’s reach should
exceed his grasp,
or what’s a heaven for?”
~Robert Browning

 Further Readings;

And the Lord answered me: “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it. For still the vision awaits its appointed time; it hastens to the end—it will not lie. If it seems slow, wait for it; it will surely come; it will not delay. ~Habakkuk 2:2-3

I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. ~Philippians 3:14

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. ~Romans 12:2

But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded. ~2 Chronicles 15:7

The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty. ~Proverbs 21:5

Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.    ~Psalm 37:4

Prepare your work outside; get everything ready for yourself in the field, and after that build your house. ~Proverbs 24:27

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Christin on November 30th, 2011

The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go
down to a man’s inmost parts.

Proverbs 18:8

I sat up last night thinking of something I had said yesterday.  Something that could have seriously offended someone.  Of course we never mean to offend or hurt others, but sometimes it slips.  Sometimes we start talking about our opinions like they are the ones that really matter.  Ever been there? Can you look back and in hindsight see a quick comment or conversation you wish you could take back? Well, I can think of a few.

As I suddenly became painfully aware of the hurt I could have caused or the gossip that could have started from me just talking, I remembered something a friend had said to me years ago about a similar situation. ‘You never know who might be listening or who you might hurt if you don’t watch what you say.  The person that overheard you could have been the person’s mother.’

I can reason with myself all day that anything I say or do has had just cause to do it, but at the end of the day if my truth doesn’t line up with God’s truth guess who’s wrong.

I would take my friends advice a step further even and say, ‘Do you want to explain that comment to God?  Do you want to try to use your reasoning with Him to make it alright to talk badly about His children and His creation?’ He hears and knows everything you do and say.  If there is something to be said about a person it should be said with them in a way that encourages them to put the Lord in that area of their life, not said about them in a gossipy and hurtful way!

Like the old saying says, ‘if you’re not part of the cure then you are part of the problem.” If whatever you are saying or doing is not lifting someone up and encouraging them with  love and God’s truth then you are bringing them down.

God wants us to take warning. In fact you probably don’t even realize how many times and in how many ways He has tried to warn us of our sins and weakness until we look back and ask Him to help us understand and learn about our mistakes. He will speak into your heart, He will send people to speak truth to you, He will use lessons from your own mistakes, and He has even given us all of the warning we need in His own word. The Bible lists all of the warnings for us, including what to do when we are facing those temptations, how to be forgiven for our mistakes, and what happens if we ignore the signs and continue our life as we want to live it…we just need to take the time to read it and put what we’ve read into action.

Ignoring the many warning signs from God is like driving your car with the gas light, low tire pressure, and check engine lights on but covering them with electrical tape. First of all it doesn’t make sense and you know how ridiculous of a thing that would be to actually do, but secondly you know sooner or later it is all going to catch up to you and you are going to run into trouble.  Hiding from the warnings isn’t going to change that, just as closing your bible or giving yourself excuses to make your shortcomings feel less sinful doesn’t make them go away either.

The truth my friend spoke to me years ago may have  fallen on deaf ears at the time, but I did get the message.  Don’t be afraid to speak up for God’s truth when the Holy Spirit moves you, you never know when someone might finally hear the advice and truth you speak to them. Just because they are not in a season of their life to receive the truth at that time doesn’t mean you should not plant that seed. Someday they will look back and hear the wisdom and compassion in your words.  “If your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad; my inmost being will rejoice when your lips speak what is right” (Proverbs 23: 15-16)

So… lesson learned and passed on to you.  I will take this knowledge and lesson to be more careful with what I say and to only let words that are uplifting leave my mouth; words that will show the characteristics of our God and lift Him up as well.  There will probably be a time when I fall short, but thank God for His good grace!

I pray this little seed will sprout and light any areas in your life where you need to practice a bit more of God’s grace and slow down before you speak or act.  Take a moment to consider….is this thing I’m about to do an encouragment or am I conforming to the ways of this world?

 

May the words of my mouth and the meditation of
my heart be pleasing in your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer

Psalm 19:14

Further Readings

If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the
very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God
provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.

~1 Peter 4:11

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But I tell you that men will have to give account on the
day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken.

~Matthew 12:36

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Finally, brothers, whatever is true,
whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,
whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such
things.

~Phillipians 4:8

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Brothers, if you have a message of encouragement for the
people, please speak.

~Acts 13:15

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Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak
truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body.

 ~Ephesians 4:25

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Do not be deceived: God cannot be
mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature,
from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit,
from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good,
for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore,
as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who
belong to the family of believers.

~Galatians 6:7-10

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The tongue is a small part of the body, but it
makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small
spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole
person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by
hell.

~James 3:5-6


 

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Christin on November 6th, 2011

 A farmer went out to sow his seed.  As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up.  Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow.  But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root.  Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants.  Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.

Mathew 13; 3-8

 

I attended a women’s conference, led by Cindy Cage, this weekend which left me completly empowered to unveil the lies and deciet in my life.   Cindy is a brilliant and Godly woman that has experienced more suffering with more grace than anyone I have ever met and we were blessed to receive some of the knowledge and understanding she has received after coming out on the other side of that suffering.

The conference was themed  ‘The Good Soil’ and in this conference we delved into the parable above, and focused on where our hearts are in that parable; rocky, thorny, or good soil.  In the parable, the rocky soil is too hard and produces no fruit, the thorny soil produces some fruit but the roots do not grow deep enough to sustain life, only the good soil allows the roots to grow deep enough to continue to be fruitful.

As any farmer or gardener could tell you, it takes work to  get the soil to be ready to grow a fruitful crop, and also continued work to keep the crop producing.  You have to get your hands dirty and work hard on tilling and softening and preparing the soil for the roots to grow deep into the ground and be able to sustain all that the world has to throw at it; heat, drought, choking by weeds, etc.   The same is true for our hearts and receiving the word of God.

If our hearts are rocky and hardened by life and our experiences we will probably not even hear the word or the truth in the word.  If our hearts are thorny we may hear the word and want to make a difference and produce fruit, but our inability to get past the suffering and hardships to the complete truth will eventually keep us from being fruitful at all.  However if our hearts are like the good soil we will hear and understand God’s truths and produce more fruit and blessings than we could ever imaging.

The good news here is that God will help do the work to prepare your heart for His word.  He will get in the mess right there by your side, getting His hands dirty with you, waiting to plant the seed.  I have always felt that before you could come along side the Lord you must first do all this work alone, but none of us really know how or what to do to really prepare our hearts for this.  I thought if I keep doing things the ‘right’ way and outwardly play the part, then eventually the inside will match.  A kind of ‘fake it til you make it’ mentality.  What a relief and release it is to know that not only can we not do it ourselves, but we are not expected to.  How great is that!

Cindy’s daughter, Hannah Cody, wrote and sang a beautiful song about this at the conference as well, it was so touching.  She sang about her own personal pain and struggles and the revelation that God is so willing to get His hands dirty with us.  He wants to be involved in our lives on every level, not just to collect the fruit.  He wants to reveal His word, heal us, and help us prepare ourselves to become fruitful.  He wants to enjoy the blessings and the work with us…that’s what relationship is all about.

When it comes to asking ourselves which type of soil we are, obviously all of us want to be the good soil where God’s truths grow deep in our hearts and our lives become fruitful, blessing everyone around us.  None of us want to be shallow or hardened.  But we have to consider this question in every aspect of our lives.  Does our behavior match what we say we believe?  If not then we clearly do not believe what we say we do as completely as we think we do.  This is a sign to us that there is some doubt in what we are believing, there is a disconnect in our lives somewhere.  This is what the conference was really about; discovering that disconnect and arming yourself with the tools to attack that doubt in order for us to understand the completeness and total truth of God’s word.  Wherever there is doubt, even just a hint of doubt, there is a window for Satan to come in and start whispering his lies and deceit.

Although the conference was not specifically about suffering, we did deal quite a bit with it.  After all, our suffering and life experience is what allows us to look into that bit of doubt or questioning we may have and begin to hear and believe the lies that the enemy tells us.

I do not want to get too much into the details of the conference, I really want you to be able to visit her site and learn the tools for yourself.  The best way to really understand something is not simply by reading how someone else learned it, but by getting the tools from the source and putting them to practice in your own lives.  With that said, I do still want to share a bit about what commonalities we discovered in our small groups while discussing the material and lesson in the conference.

When we split up into our different groups we were given verses to read and discuss together and try to be honest with each other on where our conviction lies in that verse.  How much we really in our heart of hearts believed that word for meant for us.  You would be surprised at how much we all had in common.  We all say we believe the word of God is the truth, but often times we feel like that one particular verse was meant for someone else or for another point in history.  This is not true at all!  Ever single word in the bible is as relevant the day it was written as it is today, and as hard as it may be  to accept, that word…every single one, was meant for you.  It is quite surprising that even as a believer we can question that God knows us well enough to know what to teach us and how to guide us in His words.  The lie behind this doubt is that ‘I am not treasured enough or valuable enough for God to have written an entire book for me’.  Once you see it put to words, and say it out loud you can realize how wrong that is.

Another great discovery was that no matter what our suffering may be, no matter what we have experienced in life we all believe the same lies about ourselves!  How great to know that regardless of whether you have experienced abuse or the worst thing that ever happened to you was something someone at school said to you in 3rd grade, we can still connect with each other because the lie is the same.   No matter what the experience is, if you are remembering it then it impacted you. This impact was left by the emotional reaction behind the event which opened a window for one of two things to happen; either the Holy Spirit revealed a truth to you or Satan saw an opportunity to breed a lie.  The commonality we discovered here is in the lie itself.  The lie that we are unwanted, unloved, stupid, ugly, unimportant, etc. The lies that are affecting our relationships in our families, marriages, with friends, and with God.

The more we began to share some of our experiences in our small groups or during breaks, and the more lies we heard Cindy put to words the more we realized that we all have the same lies swimming in our heads and the knowledge of that can help us all encourage each other in our daily struggles.  Whats more is, like Cindy said, ‘Satan only has deceit to use against us’ and, as we discovered in our discussions, it appears that his favorite way of using this deceit and these lies is by attacking our self worth.  If we realize that and realize our self worth lies only in our relationship with God not in what a person may or may  not be thinking about us or how we feel about ourselves we can denounce the lies so much easier!  I love this!

How empowering this knowledge was for me to realize this weekend.  Now I also realize this is still going to be a journey, and difficult at times.  I have to attack every lie I believe about myself based on upbringing, past relationships, etc and I still have to go through daily situations and analyze why I am allowing someone or some situation to make me doubt myself or doubt my faith.  But I now have the tools to do that and the knowledge that I am not alone in my self doubt and struggles.  I realize there are lies I believe where I do not even recognize there is a disconnect or a lie in there, but by unveiling one lie after another this too will eventually be dug up and weeded out.  I am surrounded by people that are on the same journey, and I know that God loves me, I am treasured, and He has given me all the knowledge I need in the book He wrote for me.  All of the answers are there if we just take the time not just to read, but to understand and put into action.

I hope this encourages you to visit Cindy’s website and discover these tools for yourself, but also to start to look at the disconnects that may be in your own life.  There is a difference between what you believe in your head and in your heart, and until those line up (in every aspect of your life) there will be room for Satan to breed lies into your life.  Surround yourself with God’s truth and encouragement and delve deep into His word daily knowing that the journey may be tough at times but the reward is worth it.

A clay pot sitting in the sun will always be clay.  It has to go through the heat of the furnace to become porcelen.

 

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Christin on October 6th, 2011

God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth.  But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all  sin.

 If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.  If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.  If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us.

1 John 5-10

I started a new bible study on 1 John last week, and after the teaching we split into small groups to discuss how this reading is relevant in our lives and can be applied daily. My small group leader painted a beautiful picture when describing our relationship with God and how walking in darkness and sin effects that relationship. I thought this image was too perfect to keep to myself.

What she said was basically that God is God. He will never change and our relationship will never change, just like our children are our children no matter what happens or what they do. In order to be in God’s presence and fellowship with Him we must be walking in the light, He cannot be around darkness. If we are living a life of sin this does not change that He is our father God, but it puts a separation, a distance between us. Just like if a friend or husband did something hurtful to us, the relationship is still there, but cannot go back to being as it should be until the hurt has been confessed and forgiven, closing the separation. Each sin that is left un-confessed builds a wall between us and the Lord making the separation harder and harder to close. Eventually the wall gets high enough that it starts to block out God’s light leaving us more and more in the darkness.  How easy is that to picture?

Imagine walking in the black of the woods at night surrounded by thick black darkness of sin, but Jesus is ahead of us shining His light to destroy that darkness and show us the way. We say thank you for coming to rescue me and leading me home, but then along the way we turn our sight from the “light of the world” and look back at the darkness. Next thing you know there is a little distance between you and the light, but your not worried because you can still see it. Then you stumble and look back again realizing that you are further still from that peaceful, encouraging light. Little by little this happens and the distance grows wider…until you realize that you cannot make this journey alone, you cannot get home without Jesus coming to save you. So again, you call out and confess. You ask forgiveness for stumbling off the path and invite Jesus back praying for Him to keep you focused on the light and on his path. This is something that will happen throughout our lives. It is so important to realize that we desperately need Jesus or we will be lost in the darkness. He longs to come and rescue us, but he will not force us to come to Him or force a relationship, that would not be loving (and we know that God is love). He can only save us if we invite Him to.

There are sins that we will commit daily and may not even realize, but recognizing that we are weak and praying for the Lord to reveal to us our sin so we will not do it again and asking for forgiveness for what we know we have done as well as what we don’t is the only way to keep us right there side by side in fellowship and in the light.

Mathew 7:13,14 says “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” The path to follow Jesus may be narrow and challenging to stay on, but is it well lit and we have the road map and a great navigator to guide us back the right direction.

There is no love without forgiveness, and no forgiveness without love.

Brian H. McGill

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Christin on September 26th, 2011

Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put
away from you, with all malice. And be kind one to another, tenderhearted,
forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven
you.
–Ephesians 4:31, 32

My goal with this site has always been to encourage women how to live a godly life amongst the day to day tasks and challenges.  It occurred to me that marriage is a part of many of our lives and I have never talked about marriage. I believe that the best way to encourage a person is not to fake a perfect life, or act like you have it all together.  To encourage a real person you have to be real, be vulnerable and honest…Which is why I have never discussed this before. I was not ready to be vulnerable with this part of my life, but the Lord has  asked me to open up to let us heal and learn together.

This past weekend I heard a great sermon on time and procrastination. At one point the Lord pointed His finger at me and said ‘you need to hear this part’ but what He spoke to me after went beyond that sermon; as if the Lord continued on to say ‘and since we are talking about it, here is something else I want to point out to you. ‘ (Isn’t it great how a good teaching will open a window for the Lord to speak truth to your heart?)

What I felt in my heart at that point was something that has never occurred to me, and nothing I would ever intentionally do to my husband.  I realized that I am letting my husband take all of the blame for the problems in our marriage. That is not to say that I have ever blamed him by thought or words, but I also have never accepted any part in the blame when he has come to me apologizing for something.

We have had issues, that I do not need to go into detail with just yet, but how wrong and hurtful of me to allow someone I love to stand in front of me, apologizing and vulnerable, and remain hurt enough with him to let him take all the blame on his shoulders with out sharing the load.
In a marriage we are a team. We are meant to work as one person with one goal. “In marriage, each partner is to be an encourager rather than a critic, a forgiver rather than a collector of hurts, an enabler rather than a reformer.” (H. Norman Wright and Gary J. Oliver)

Now I also want to say that I didn’t choose not to respond to avoid anything or to be hurtful, I didn’t engage in the conversation because, to me,  what he was apologizing for was a non issue.  Apologizing for not giving me a bigger home or more this and that has never been a thought in my head…but for a man providing for the family is always the main goal.  As a wife, our job is to ensure that our husband is happy and secure knowing he is doing his job.   If this means petting their ego a bit do it!  You would have commended and praised for much lesser things while dating, is it any less important now?

As women, God created us to be loving, encouraging, maternal.  But we also have enough of ‘Adam’ in us to respond with a man’s anger when feeling attacked.  We can be hurt and that hurt starts a war in our hearts.  This is something we cannot let out.  We need the Lord to help us to keep this hurt in perspective and help us get to the other side of it with compassion, love, and understanding…all of the characteristics of the Lord Himself that makes women such amazing creations.

Another thing is that someone has to choose to be the one to end the cycle.  I read a book once that describes this ‘crazy cycle’ as responding to hurt with hurt and anger and then the spouse responds to that with more hurt and anger and back and forth until they are both spinning out of control with the hurt that neither person meant to inflict to start with!  If this explains how you respond to any relationship, especially with your spouse,  be the one to act as Jesus would and end it. Respond to the hurt with compassion for the brokenness behind the words, not the words themselves.  Turn your cheek and answer back with loving words, after all you love this man.

With my husband apologizing and me not really responding to it, or not responding as I should have, that doesn’t end the cycle or the hurt.  In-fact it solidifies the hurt with him thinking what he said must be true since I didn’t argue it.  I never saw it this way before, even though I had read the book, I somehow read it as arguments not day to day dealings with your spouse.  In my heart I really felt that the apology was unnecessary so I didn’t discuss it…what I missed was that the apology was only a small piece of what was going on.

If a person is not getting the praise or attention they need; or a man isn’t feeling respected or worthy of respect, what do they do? Think about it. If you are having a fat and bloated day but need to feel like your man still wants you what do you do?  You ask him and talk to him for reassurance.  Men and women may be very different, but in this we are not. We need to feel loved, wanted, needed, and respected by our spouse.

With this in mind let us now answer the first question. What would your husband do if he needed to feel worthy of your love and respect? He would come to you for reassurance.  That is exactly what my husband was doing, trying to get me to reassure him that I am happy with what we have and acknowledge him as a man providing for his family.

With this knowledge think back on times your husband may have been reaching out to you, in a manly way as to not appear week. Think back to times when you probably should have praised him for his hard work or for being a good husband and father.  Be the one to recognize the hurt and end the cycle.  If you do not yet have a hurtful crazy cycle in your marriage, knowledge of what to look for is key to keeping it from happening, so please do not shrug this off.

Nothing I have done in my marriage was done to intentionally hurt my husband or place blame and guilt on him, but the Lord showed me that is exactly what was happening.  I do still have some hurt, but there is two in a marriage and even though I have not personally placed all of the blame on him, it is not fair for me not to share in my part of the blame and help carry the load into healing.  The Lord showed me how to break this stressful spiral and end it, and that’s what I intend to do.

If this message has spoken to you, or you feel that you need to express a kindness toward someone or tell someone how you feel about them, do it while you have the time.  Do not procrastinate and assume there will be another opportunity.  You and I have no clue how much time we have here on Earth or what further damage will be made by not ending the hurtful cycle while you have the opportunity. Take advantage of this time now.  (This is where the original sermon that started this epiphany came into play)

I encourage you to take advantage of every window that opens and truth that the Lords speaks into your heart. You never know when or where it may occur, but be open to it when it happens.  One final bit of encouragment; being vulnerable with your husband and reassuring him in his needs will only encourage him to reciprocate the same love and kindness toward you.  And isn’t that what we want? To love and be loved, and to teach our children how a marriage should look.

I pray that this has encouraged you today and that the lord is filling you will forgiveness and love, and is speaking truth into your heart right now, whether it be in your marriage or any other relationship you have.  I pray you take these tools and use them to bless your marriage and your children.  I also pray that if you are hurt or unsure how to take these steps that you reach out to someone for their wisdom and guidance and look to the Lord for the strength to get you through this time of forgiveness and healing.

We all have a childhood dream that when there is love, everything goes like
silk, but the reality is that marriage requires a lot of compromise.

–Raquel Welch

 

 

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Christin on August 8th, 2011

Do not fear risk.  All exploration, all growth is calculated.  Without challenge people cannot reach their higher selves.  Only if we are willing to walk over the edge can we become winners.

Author Unknown

 

While watching television with my family tonight we realized that our DVR was recording something.  Out of curiosity we looked to see what was recording, since it obviously must have been something someone had wanted to watch.  Oddly enough no one remembered recording this series.  Either way, what was on was Stephen Hawking’s “The Universe”.  This is a series that uses science to explore and attempt to understand how the Universe, Earth, and ultimately we were created.  The episode I watched was exploring black holes.  This is such an interesting phenomenon that I was captivated by the show and actually ended up watching part of the next; exploring God’s role or if there is a need for God to control the universe vs laws of nature.

What I found most interesting in this series thus far was the number of times Mr.Hawkins said that something happened by ‘good luck’ or ‘coincidence’.  Do people believing in solely the ‘big bang’ not find it odd there there is still no proof or answer to many, many questions?  I do appreciate that, to this point, Mr. Hawking has not said that he does not believe in a god but that it is not wrong to explore humanity’s most fundamental questions of who am I and where did I come from using science.  I have to say that I agree with him, and also that the Lord will go to extraordinary lengths to show each of us, in our own special way, of His existence….quite possibly science is that special way for Mr. Hawking and others like him.  

 I have a relative who had dinner with an astronaut that had walked on the moon.  This astronaut was not a Christian at the time of the walk, and was in fact quite arrogant and self-centered.  It was only when he walked on the moon, tied to the ship,  looking at the vastness of space and how small Earth was that he began to realize how small we really are in the scheme of things.  But how is it that we are so small and insignificant and so taken care of?  In all this vastness, we live in the only place in the galaxy that could sustain us!  This realization is what changed his life and brought him to the Lord.   What an extraordinary length the Lord went to in order to reach his child!   It is puzzling to me that anyone can see the beauty of the universe, the awe in the complexity of all creation, and the fact that so many things are left to ‘chance’ and ‘good luck’ and not  believe that there is a god behind it. 

Many people would be upset that I am interested in this science.  After all, how can you truly be a Christian and believe in science?  That is where you would be mistaken.  I feel that in order to truly believe in anything you must first understand why others believe as they do.  How can you say that you do not believe in any one religion  over another or any one theory over another if you do not have an understanding of both? 

As a Christian I watched this show in a different light.  Not searching for answers, but trying to understand why others find it hard to believe in the Lord and more readily believe in theories and science.  I also have this bit of curiosity that still wants to explore why there can not be a possibility for both. 

God is an artist.  He is the ultimate creator.  Is it not possible that when Lucifer and the third of angels were cast from the Heaven’s like lightning, as Jesus described, that this could not have been the ‘big bang’?  And that millions of years later (human years, since the Lord knows no time) the Lord created Adam and Eve on Earth in an Eden that had already been in the works and perfected for us in that length of time?  As any artist will tell you, your work develops and evolves until it becomes your final creation….would this be any different for the most high creator?  I am not saying I believe this, but in order to know what you truly believe you have to explore all options and understand all alternatives.  Leo F. Buscaglia said, “The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing.  He may avoid suffering and sarrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.”  This is one show that has forced me to do just that; begin to explore, risk, and grow in my faith and beliefs.

In a world where there is so little tolerance for other ways of thinking, be it religious, scientific, cultural, or otherwise, I challenge you all to really explore why it is you believe what you do.  After all, there will come a time (if it has not already  happened for you) when you will be questioned and held to the fire for your beliefs.  The bible tells us that we will be persecuted and put to death because of our beliefs(Mathew 24:9) . We better be ready to really test ourselves so that we will not waver under such threat.   While we are educating ourselves on the beliefs of others we will solidify in our  hearts and minds the beliefs that we hold for ourselves.  What better way is there there to reach the unsaved than by understanding their beliefs and poking holes in them with the light and truth of God?  There is God’s glory in all things, even doubt and human curiosity.

Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

  Matthew 5:9-11

 

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